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Chelsey S's avatar

I literally dealt with this yesterday from my husbands family. It was our nieces birthday and many of us were there with our 3.5 year old and nearly 5 month old, and literally the first thing people said was “oh, look at the tiny boy! How much does he weigh? Is he eating enough?”. Fuck right off. Truly, when he was born we didn’t even put his size on the social media announcement. Why is that what is most important to people outside of healthcare? It’s immensely frustrating.

I think what makes it worse is that at some point trajectory changes and your kid is TOO heavy. At what point do people decide that the way things are is completely acceptable? When does it change?

Thanks for talking about this, Brad.

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Beck Delahoy's avatar

These measurements are an indicator of healthy development, not a statement of healthy development. I wish everyone could remember that.

And it's so easy to have these measurements be flawed - a big poop just before being weighed can shift the baby down off their curve! Where if they'd been weighed just 10 minutes earlier, they would have been fine

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